tell me why everCan you tell why I should ever get married?

I get bored with every woman I date after a few months (or weeks or days or hours). I had one two year relationship where the woman dumped me for cheating. The only reason I didn't leave her first was because she was an awesome cook.

So girls.. tell me what makes you worth committing to...?
Let me give you a more informed perspective: IMO don't bother committing to today's women - they've all been poisoned by the feminist culture; none of them are worthy wife material, b/c they don't know how to act like ladies and they're also notorious for creating unrealistic expectations -which plays a major role in why women are not happy in marriage and related directly to why women file divorces at a higher rate than men.

Think of the picture: she'll want to to provide AND help around the house, AND be sensitive to her needs, AND earn enough money, AND be available for the family AND spend time with her. Ontop of this, she will want to take over your whole life, claim your income as hers, to buy her a big house, an expensive ring then impregnate her and support the kids for 18 years. Moreover, expect sex on HER schedule, and expect to do 1/2 the housework, otherwise its considered "demeaning" and have little to no say in how the money should be spent

What's more, there will be no appreciation for your efforts, constantly dealing with a wife who is never satisfied by your hard efforts, how nothing you do is NEVER enough, constant nagging, b itching, whinging, less sex and plenty of emotional abuse. Then combine this w/ the fact that women are predisposed to think that they're better than you, b/c that's what they have been told growing up, so she will always feel that her needs are far more important than yours, so in order to get your needs fulfilled, you need to address hers first.

Why else do you think women make that argument that in order to for him to get some action in the bedroom, he has to do more outside the bedrom.

Now combine this w/ the divorce stats (50% chance of divorce occurring, w/ a 65% chance that it will be the one initiating by her), no-fault divorce and the financial and legal risks involved(she's almost guaranteed custody of the child in the event of a divorce, and can also seize anywhere b/w 50-90% of your assets, such as your car, house etc - ontop of this you have to pay child support and alimony not based on what you make, but based on imputed income, which is decided by the court), you would have to be a moron to enter into a legal contract w/ them.

So ask yourself: what can you actually gain from marriage? Nothing. It's a losing proposition, so why bother limiting yourself when you can just get the milk for free w/o buying the cow, and let some other clueless idiot deal w/ all their nonsense? Just remember that the risks and liabiltiies will always outweigh the benefits of marriage. Bottomline is: Don't marry!
Sorry you only see women in a negative light. I think you filter tell me why everthe world around you to reinforce your own beliefs about people. A lot of women are good people but I don't think you are seeing them for what they are because you can't see beyond your own bitterness and anger. Stay single.

I admit that I am cynical about my views; however, I'm only being realistic about their behaviour, and also given the fact that I've studied family law - that was a real eye-opener.

The type of women described above account for at least the majority out there, so the prospect of finding good wife material is slim. Either way, I still would have no incentive to marry.

Furthermore, given today's legal climate of marriage and divorce, it is far too risky for a man to enter into a contract w/ a woman, so it's within my best interests, financially and legally etc, to protect myself from a certain anti-male contract. Many more men seem to be waking up to this, too.

Stay single? I'll prefer to date, thanks.

YOU have the committing problem. i wouldn't want you committing to me anyway
I can't answer that because I do not want you to commit to me!
Your statement tells me that you should never get married because you are not willing to do the things necessary to sustain a long term relationship. Married people get bored with each other, too. The ones who stay together choose to remain faithful to their partners and work on spicing things up to alleviate the boredom, instead of seeking a new plaything, as you have done.
A good friend of mine recently said about his wife:

"I never met a woman that I could live with, until I met a woman that I couldn't live without."

Don't commit to anyone who doesn't give you that feeling. What would you do if you committed to someone, then found the right woman later? I'm not talking about getting bored with the one you're with, I mean there is at least one person out there who is truly meant for you.

However, a lot of us "girls" are worth committing to. You just haven't met the right one. =;o)
for love! bottom line!
if you want a maid committ to a service not achick
if you want sex go to a prostitute
if you want long lasting communication, bestfriend, passion, the find someone who meets your needs!
not every girl is your type!
and for what i can see you won't find her unless there are more passive females out there who love to be walked all over and cheated on..
I use to get board with my men i'm in my longest relationship now! but he is the one! and we both know it!
once you find the right girl you may change your mind too!
but if you look for her you will not find her! just how stuff works!~

Best of luck! and being single isn't a bad thing so don't commite unless you mean it or wanttell me why ever to hurt people for no reason!
Stay single. Some people are not meant to be with someone and you are one of them.
well im not going to tell you to do anything Brad D. Its up to you if u decide to gte married. Wether you do or you don't it doesn't affect me in any way. If you ever get married though do it because you really love the woman and are going to treat her right.
I pick my buttox & fling it at my mate ... you want to stay away from me ;o)
sorry but it sounds to me like YOU have the commitment problem. I feel sorry for any female that stumbles into your lair. SEEK HELP now!
Marriage is not something for everyone and it dosn't change the persepective's of the relationship (well supopsedly) marriage is a long term commitment that takes two people who are devoted to each other and are commited to make it work and work at it to work.

You are not the marrying kind unless you find yourself a woman that is open to a open relationship or a swingers lifestyle so that you would never be bored...

When you find the one things will change perspective for you and you will know when that happens because no one else will be as good as them.
Please don't. We'll establish a holiday in your name.
You shouldn't. Marriage is not for everyone. Obviously it's not them, it's about you and your choices. I would recommend some self-reflection instead of marriage.
So, you think that you are marriage material?? You cannot be serious!! I'm sure that you are quite boring and you probably would not know how to operate a microwave oven. You're a fool !!
First off: don't cheat. Bottom line. You can't have two relationships at once.
I think you might need to look at yourself for problems before you start blaming the entire female sex for your commitment issues.
just stay single! it would be better anyway...for you...you could find tons of good cooks! :-F
Marriage is not something you should do because somebody told you to. That's your decission. You should be able to know all the pros and cons, so you choose.
Brad here's how I think: (this is for the sake of your question only) I'm not about to convince you of anything; why should I? We work out we work out, we don't we don't. (shruggs and walks off)
There is nothing for you to commit to. Always remember it is not written in stone that a person has to marry.........But if you happen to spawn children be prepared to pay for them.
it is a good way to lock up a hot piece of azz like Giggly Giraffe for a year or so!
If you never want to get married, we don't mind. That means we're safer. Don't bother.

Now would any men like to tell ME why I should marry any of you?

sleepiness during the dayWhat are some tips or things you can do to overcome sleepiness during the day?

What are some tips or things you can do to overcome sleepiness during the day?
i was dragging for the longest time, and then i started taking a multi vitamin,,,,,,, and kapoow lots of energy and i feel great! exercise will help you out too that gives you lots of energy.
if you are taking a pill or sosleepiness during the daymething that is making you sleepy take it at night or before you go to bed. people are the most tired in the morning so take it when you feel more alive.

if you are not on a pill then excuse youself and go to the bathroom. Splash your face with as cold of water as you can manage.

if you feesleepiness during the dayl yourself falling asleep pinch yourself and start talking.
The obvious one is to get enough sleep at night! Physical exercise during the day will help you sleep, but exercise at least 5 hours before bedtime. Don't eat spicey stuff before going to bed, and don't drink to help you relax.

what you like about someoneWhat do you think about the song someone like you by adele?

It's got nice lyrics but the tune is annoying. I actually hate Adele now.
Really great song. Brill song to play for a piano exam.
have what you like about someoneyou ever put a cat in a pillowcase and smacked it against a wall?!?!?!
My friend did a cover of that song she sounded beautiful but anywawhat you like about someoneys it's an average sing according to me
i really like it. At one point, i was addicted to it!
One of my favorite songs! =)

print play moneyKnow any websites where I can design and print play money?

No, I'm not counterfeiting; I'm implementing a 'pay the kids in exchangeable fake money for obeying' system, and want to design my own currency. I have one designed, but it'sprint play money not very good. Know any websites?
This site has links to 7 sources for printing out play money for free:


This site has a video tutorial on how to make play money using Miprint play moneycrosoft Word:


This site has a simple step-by-step guide on how to make play money using the basic paint software that comes on most computers:

greatest quotes friendshipWhat are some good friendship quotes?

Does anyone know of a great friendship quote or two for a really great friend and you want to let them know that you love them and you couldn't live without them.....a groovy one too plz :)
Ah, friends :)

QUOTES :
"I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends. I'm surrounded by angels, but I call them my best friends."

"Best friends are the family we choose for ourselves"

"I was normal until i met what i call my best friends"

"I live for the nights that I wogreatest quotes friendshipn't remember with the friends I will never forget."

“To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.”

"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."

"Make new friends and keep the old, one is silver and the other gold"

“Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.”

Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.

It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.

Friegreatest quotes friendshipnds are like bras; close to your heart, support you and only you have them.

"Friends are the people God gave us to keep us company..."

"I simply can't live without you"

"Whats Patrick without Spongebob?What's Minnie without Mickey? What's me without you ? "
-Best friends are gods ways of apologizing for our families.

-Your friend will call you a retard but your best friend will be there acting like one with you

interview questions situationsInterview questions?

i have a tough interview coming up and need to find answers for questions like

name a time when you were under pressure and how you reacted
or
when recently, did you have to make a decision which effected your team etc etc

basically, situation based questions - anyone know a website for info on thise types of questions or where i can go to get some free info?
I can't think of a website but I am reminded of a proffesional job coach's advice to me.

When answering you need to give specific examples. They want to see how you have reacted to similar problems in the past. They do not have to relate exactly to the position you are itnerviewing for but need to demonstrate sounds judgement and decision making. You can break each question into bite sized pieces and tackle each part seperately in the following manner:

SAR

S-Situation: What was the particular situation?? How did the problem occur? What made you realize that the problem needed to be addressed? In other words you are showing the interviewer that you recognized that a problem einterview questions situationsxisted.

A-Action: What action did you take? How did you address the problem?? Why did you take that particular action? How did you weigh the particular outcomes?

R-Response: What happeened after you implemented the solution? What was the result? Did it work? Did it not work? Why? Bear in mind that the problem did not have to be solved. What the interviewer's are looking for is a clear thought process and organized approach to overcoming an obstacle.

Never answer a question with 'I don't know' or 'I have never encountered that situation.' If you can't think of a specific example that matches what they are looking for try to think of another situation close to it. Maybe segue in with 'I am afraid I can't think of a particular instance where that occured. However, that reminds of of another time when......'.

As long as you follow the SAR approach you will be able to handle most any question. Remember, THINK before you answer. Take as long as needed. Be deliberate. It usually makes the interviewer interested.

I had the WORST time on iinterview questions situationsnterviews until I followed the simple advice mentioned above and then I started blowing people away!!

Originally I couldn't get low paying office jobs because I interviewed so well but now I confidently interview for any position I want and have gotten them all!

Also, the first question they will probably ask is "Tell us/me about yourself." Most asked question at interviews. Come up with a 90 second 'commercial' about who you are and how you ended up sitting in front of them. Mine was more 60 seconds but worked fine. Education, jobs (what you did in the position), why you are at the interview and maybe what you like to do in your spare time.

Just be calm and be yourself. And good luck!
You need to answer those questions yourself. No one can answer them for you. And a good interviewer will see through it.
Why don't you just be honest. If you put as much time and effort into your answer as you are trying to cheat at it you'd have a damn good answer.

myspace sad love poemsIsn't it annoying that people think we can't love?? >.<?

Kids like me that are in middle school are obviously going to have relationships. But why do adults feel the need to doubt us.
People that used to be kids(or are ones now), have you ever been in a relationship and adults look down upon it and say to us constantly" You kids don't know what love is, You children all think that your mature and know what your doing, but don't,"etc. Isn't that annoying???? How can they tell us that we don't know what love is. There's no physiological proof that we don't know the definition or feeling of "love".
But I can sorta understand where their coming from. The girls at my old school are the perfect examples of why they think that. They go out with one guy for a week and then over the weekend they break up...then monday morning they walk hand in hand with a NEW guy! And it's not even like the guy's a rebound...this is just a ROUTINE for them!! And after the first 1-2 weeks of dating they post on facebook and myspace, how much they love their boo, or "he's my everything , he's MY HEART! <3". And what's especially annoying is when they post as their facebook status, Obviously something that came from a love poem or a love song! It's girls like these that make us look bad. myspace sad love poemsAnd the guys are also guilty for this, just because they'll go out with a girl , because they think she's "hot". The sad part is... 40% of the time they don't even know the girl's name....85% for last name.
It's people like these that make us look bad to adults. There's actually a good amount of us that take relationships maturely. But obviouly they don't see that with those lovey dovey idoits. :/

Anybody else feel like this?
When I was your age, I felt the exact same way (I'm a sophomore in high school now). The sad truth of it is that neither of us know what love us. It's one of those things that you always think you know until you reach that age when you realize you don't. Even if you take your relationships very seriously, it's hard to experience love entirely. Don't worry though. It will be worth it once you finally know what love truly feels like.
I disagree on the percentage of the name knowing part, but the rest is true. I was actually in love with a girl more than anything, i dedicated my life to making her love me. Then she dumped me in the worse way possible (took me by the hand and led me thinking we were gonna do something else, then just said we shouldnt date.) but thats true, there is no proof we have nevermyspace sad love poems felt love. Plus, why should adults care? If they believe we will grow out of it, then they shouldnt even say anything
Well im like 16 in high school and yeah i felt the same way as you in middle school and now, i've had a couple of Boy friends and i've only said i love you once and meant it - i don't play games.
I felt like this in middle school, and now as a high schoolers I understand that point of view, I go to the middle school and see little sixth graders dating and I'm like WTF? When you get older you will understand, I promise!
Honestly does any one know what love really is? Everyone has their own view and definition on love. I'm 19 and my parents still tell me I don't know what love is. But I can tell you, I know what love is. I am in love and its the best feeling in the world. Once you know what true love feels like you know that's what actual love means. If your in middle school still I would suggest waiting to see if you are in love. But that doesn't mean you cant love. It can only be defined by you and what you think it is. :)